Scenes From My Weekend


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I have been looking forward to this weekend when I could make a run to Texas to pick up Daughter #2 for Spring Break.  We knew we could get away from Georgetown about 1:30 Friday afternoon and hoped that would get us through Fort Worth before traffic got to its worst.

I35 from Austin through Fort Worth is a deathtrap.  We have been making this trip for two years and in that time have come across three fatality accidents as well as countless less serious ones.  We make about six round trips through here every school year.  Over the course of a college education, the odds were telling me that at some point we would be involved in an accident along this stretch of highway.  Friday was our day.

The traffic was stop and go as it often is.  We were stopped while the truck behind us was still in go mode.  He hit us; the impact caused us to rear end the stopped car in front of us.  I saw the look of horror cross my daughter’s face as she saw the truck coming from behind.  The initial hit was jarring, allowing just a moment to feel the dread of the oncoming crash into the second car.

I said a quick prayer of thanksgiving that everyone involved appeared uninjured and pushed images of other vehicles I have seen alongside this highway out of my head.  I stepped outside the van prepared to see the worst.  Instead I had a there, but for the grace of God, go I moment.  The van didn’t look like all those other cars I had seen, none of our cars did.  Our cars didn’t look like the crash had been a highway crash at all.

I have a theory when I am protected from something that might have been a whole lot worse.  I think it means that I have not yet finished what God has planned for me to do here.  Friday reminded me to be still and listen; the same lesson was repeated in the sermon at church on Sunday.  To be honest, I will need to be reminded many more times again.  This is not my strong suit. Be still and listen.

car wrecks to cookiesThe impact transferred letters from the rear vehicle’s license plate onto our bumper.

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Not much damage considering we were the creamy center of a Honda sandwich.

old house

As we wound our way from the frontage road where we stopped back towards the highway we saw this faded beauty and had to go check it out.  In another reminder of grace, we noticed that someone is lovingly restoring it.

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picket fence

Safely back home we were delighted to discover more drought busting moisture!

wet leaves

raindrops

Saturday evening the whole family baked an assortment of treats for the youth group bake sale to raise money for their mission trip to Orlando this summer.

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Then we built a fire, watched a movie and played a game or two.

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The weekend ended much better than it started.  It was quiet and peaceful; and I stayed still and listened.


About may

I am a married mother of three fabulous young adults. I have been married to one great guy for over a quarter of a century and hope we haven't reached the halfway point of our marriage yet. Writing helps me sort things out and allows me to avoid unsavory tasks that I probably should be doing. I've reached middle age in middle America and am anxious to see what comes next.
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5 Responses to Scenes From My Weekend

  1. Heather says:

    Oh, my, that cinnamon muffin looking thingy looks soooo good.

    I am so glad that you two were okay. I get so scared when we have to drive on the freeway. People in CA drive like maniacs, or at least that is what we are told when friends and relatives from out of state visit.

    I have the same theory that you do. I am also always looking for explanations for things. One time I even got into a car accident that “totalled” my old junky car and while I was devastated at the time, the insurance payout afforded me a better car. Then when my brother’s daughter was born I was able to make the long trip to see them, whereas if I still had my junky car, I wouldn’t have taken a chance to travel in it, because I wouldn’t be sure if it would make it to the destination without breaking down.

  2. Adrienne says:

    oh my….me and the highway – I try to just relax and enjoy the ride, but It’s a challenge! So glad you’re ok! Thanks for being a listener….and, as always, for sharing your heart. It reminds me to listen too.

  3. hyacynth says:

    May, I’m SO glad you guys are all physically ok after that accident. Those moments are huge reminders that we sometimes need to still ourselves and refocus on what’s actually spread out before us … listen to the pulse of our lives and reset if needed. Enjoy spring break with your loved ones.

  4. Oh no!! How scary! I’m so glad you all weren’t hurt, and that, after catching your breath, you were able to go on and have a lovely weekend after.

  5. so glad you are ok- wonderful to find the grace and experience joy even in a moment like that – it’s all in the perspective :)

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